Things to consider

by amharned

You’ll find it difficult to get me to criticize any girl about her body. NEVER, is the frequency that I would assign it.

Now, that being said; I do not mean that I fail to realize that some girls are little bean polls and others are fuller, curvier. These are just categories that our bodies can fall into and I cannot emphasize how important it is to not get yourself tangled up in the messy, ugly business of trying to change yourself. We all have our limitations with our bodies and they can only handle so much be it in mass or lack thereof. This does not limit a person in how they present themselves to  the world though. Knowing yourself and how to present yourself in the most flattering light with confidence is much more beautiful than ringing yourself dry trying to look like something else and failing at it…terribly.

I feel very sage saying all of this; however, I suffer (as most do) with accepting this advice. For example, I’m currently on a diet (I’m a chronic dieter). This blog *cross my fingers* will let me organize my irrational thoughts and put some perspective on these insidious thoughts. In truth, I am not fat…far from it. I’ve got some girth to me and relative to my Asian mother and her family I am “big-boned ???”

My goal is simply this:

To be happy.

How I’ll end up that way isn’t by dieting or achieving some number. In fact, that could be my downfall.

I’ll keep you posted 😉